As I’ve already said I am one of the millions of people in the world that is on MySpace and Facebook.
I use it to keep in touch with people back home and to even reconnect with people I haven’t seen in years.
You can find pretty much anyone on these social networking, and pretty much anyone can find you.
There has been many a time that I have received friend requests from strangers.
I have a rule of thumb that I do not reject any ones request unless I do know them and dislike them.
It’s very interesting looking at strangers profiles.
This profile is supposed to tell you about the person’s lives and who they are.
But, it really isn’t.
I’m sorry to break the hearts of some but your online profile is not an extension of yourself.
You can’t look at a profile and figure out if the person is a complete jerk or a axe murderer.
You see their pictures of them and their friends.
You see that they talk to people and have their “top friends.”
However, none of this information tells you about who they really are.
Not to mention the information that they provide doesn’t mean it’s the truth.
Because no one ever lies on the Internet.
Supposedly their interest in books, movies and music is a deep view into their souls.
But again, how do we know they are not just putting what they think will make them more appealing to other people.
Also, there are these little boxes that you write down what you are online for.
It could be friendship, dating or something of that nature.
But if you really think about it why should someone be truthful on that box either.
My ex has just gotten a Facebook profile and says girls are sending their p**** to him through e-mails.
They send messages saying a little something about themselves and their phone number or invitations to their parties.
However, if you look at their profiles they are online for friendship and networking.
No women is going to put that she is online for dating or relationships.
They will look like sluts if they do that, well more than they do when they send messages like that to complete strangers.
Men on the other hand can put down that they are online for dating and relationships without even considering it.
It’s the double standard.
Men can be looking for women or have multiple women and be “the man” or a pimp.
If a women does it she’s desperate or a hoe.
In my opinion it’s safe to accept people’s request as long as you don’t have too much personal information on it.
People who put their home addresses or their class schedules complete with buildings and room numbers are just waiting for some stalker person to find their profile and come after them.
My profile has no personal information that I don’t want people to know about myself and people have to be one of my friends to even see my profile.
And of course a no meeting people I don’t know from the Internet.
Just seems safer to me because you can’t really tell anything real about people from their profiles.